Why, when a someone wants to stop being friends with you, does he/she just start ignoring you right off the bat or slowly withdraw from you? Why, if we don't want to hang out with a person anymore, can we not just respectfully tell them so? Are we really all so codependent?
Gah! It frustrates me. :P
I'm going to set up a hypothetical situation for you real quick:
There are three friends: Gianna, Anne, and Catherine. One day, Gianna decided she wanted to stop being friends with Anne and Catherine. Well, she started hanging out with other people, and Anne caught on pretty quickly. She was hurt, but accepted it. Catherine, however, was in complete denial. Catherine was still inviting Gianna out to events, and every time -- every single time, bar none -- one of these invitations was extended, Gianna said, "Um, okay, I'll try, but I have a lot of homework." But still Catherine persisted, even though she and Gianna hadn't been able to hang out inside or outside of school for months, and Gianna actively sought to ignore her when passing her in the hallways.
Have you ever had a "Catherine" in your life? 'Cause mine is driving me crazy!
Why does life have to be so annoying and confusing?
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